The most important part of presenting yourself online is your profile. This is what is going to GET YOU GIRLS.
When you first see a girl’s picture online, you don’t just immediately send her an email. You look at her profile to see what she’s looking for, what her interests are, and whether she’s the kind of person you want to contact through the first email.
Girls do the same thing.
More importantly, girls almost NEVER just contact a guy out of the blue, because they rarely have good profiles up. That’s why you’ll probably have to make the first move if you ever want to meet a woman online.
Your married dating profile should showcase just a few things, and if you can do it well, you’ll stand a MUCH better chance of hooking up with a lovely lady on any site.
The first thing you need to do is keep it simple.
Girls don’t want to read a long and complicated profile any more than guys do. You have to be able to say everything you want to say without getting really wordy.
Another thing to avoid in the wording of your profile is sounding like you’re lost for words. This is a huge issue with a lot of guys on dating sites, and leads to profiles like this:
“Yeah…I don’t know…uh….i like…stuff…and things haha….lol….”
The best part about presenting yourself online is that you get to plan it out and think it through ahead of time. You can take as much time as you want. There’s no reason to put up a crappy profile before a good one is ready. It’s not going to get you any girls, so don’t even bother.
The second thing you need to do is look like an adult.
You might think that women will want you to look younger than you are. Unless you’re pushing 80, that’s probably not the case.
In fact, women on dating sites seem to prefer men who are older. A study on OKCTrends showed that over 90 percent of women will not consider a man 10 years her senior “too old.”
What they WANT is a man who looks like he has his life together. He should have a decent job, a decent wardrobe, and basically look like someone you can trust with secrets.
Women don’t want to have to babysit their lovers.
If you’re going to hook up with a woman, you’ll need to fulfill her needs in the relationship as much as she’s going to fulfill yours. In your profile, you should look like you’re going places in life-or better still, you should look like you’re already there.
Don’t be indecisive. State very simply your interests, your desires, what you’re looking for, and what you think you’re providing. Don’t be a chump or a stupid frat boy-women don’t date those if they can help it. Remember, there are more men looking for dates than women, and they have their pick of the best of the best-so be that best!
Pictures are important.
A girl wants to see what she’s getting out of any arrangement. That includes you, if you want to enter into a relationship with her!
Here’s a checklist for your picture that makes the requirements easy to remember:
- DO show your face…
- DON’T show ONLY your face
- DO show at least some of your body (so it doesn’t look like you’re hiding anything)…
- DON’T show too much (yes, we mean don’t put up a dick pic)
- DO show yourself doing something cool or fun…
- DON’T show yourself in front of anything recognizable, in case someone finds the pictures.
If you’re worried about people you know seeing your face, there are a lot of websites that offer tools to blur or cut out your face. Some good ones, like AffairsClub, offer you the opportunity to lock your photos, only letting the people you choose have access to them.
Either way, make sure that you look sophisticated, well put-together, and not….well, not like a broke messy idiot. Women can get that at any sports bar, they don’t need to go online for that.